Jul
26

Have good friends.

One thing my mom always taught me is that your reputation precedes you.  No matter how far you run, it’ll follow and until you rectify it, it’ll never go away.  Another thing she always says is “Never sit on the fence!”.  This weekend I found out that someone close to me has betrayed me.  I can’t say I’m really surprised, because all the signs have been showing up for a while, but I can’t say I’m not hurt either.

I’m so grateful that I have good friends who support me and are loyal no matter what.  Without a second thought my friend stood up for me without knowing all of the facts, but she stood up for me regardless.  Yes, I was betrayed, but more importantly I was backed up by this friend, and that’s what matters to me most.

So in the spirit of never sitting on the fence, and defending my reputation, I’d like to just say that I’m glad I have good friends.

The Three Must-Be-Queers

PS: Anglug wedding was awesome.  Separate blog post pending.

26 Comments to “Have good friends.”

  • christ i love this picture.

    FUCK all the douches in the world. seriously. specifically one.

    that douche will get what’s coming to them. seri-ass.

  • where are Heidi’s glasses – unbalanced pic

    mwah Sheena-L

  • We really are a ridiculously good looking trio, aren’t we?

  • TC – I know, it’s time she upgraded to PlasticFTWNerdGlasses like your kid and I.

    She’s letting the team down.

  • Ahem. clearly you need to mail me and fill me in. Immediately. Right now.

    Love you bitches. Big time x

  • Did you guys purposefully get matching frames…..

    Someone close to us always betrays us, sadly I think it happens to everyone and more than once :/ who can know why, jealousy or just human nature….
    Anyways, now you’re making everyone curious as to what happened, it’d be cool if you did a post on it :P It makes for interesting reading, sorry lol, I’m bored, and so nosy.

    • Well, we didn’t try. But since ExMi got hers first, I suppose she inspired mine. Although you can’t see it in this photo, mine are a dark red tortoise shell, hers are black.

      I don’t think I’ll be blogging the details, I have had one fight online already and its taken me years to get rid of the bad joojoo that came with it, so I’ll keep this one offline :)

  • Friends are the best.
    Good luck with the betrayal, it’s no fun dealing with those kinds!

    • Thanks Alet – I’ll be Aokay, I just need to confront the person and move on.

  • Cleavage and hot nerd glasses. Kieffly pic. Despite being blurry, the Goose has some amazing eyes going on there.

    Hope the dramarama clears up chickiepoo <3

    • Blurry pictures is how we roll. Seriously. We actually try and get our pics blurry.

  • and by “try” you mean – we drinkanddrinkanddrink until we realise it’s an AWESOME idea to take pictures.

    and pull goosefaces.

  • @CC mine are black *and* tortoiseshell.

    sheena’s are red and tortoiseshell.

    TORTOISE. that’s such an arb word.

  • A black friend of mine still thinks tortoise is pronounced tore-twice. I lol frequently.

  • It is truly KAK when you are betrayed.. Hope it passes without too much hurtfullness :-(

    Lucky for you though.. You are truly fabulous and have fabulous type people surrounding you :-)

    ((Hugs))

  • lol I know about online feuds! I think the best thing is to confront them, hear their stupid explanation/lie, and move on and just forget about it.

    My dad said “turkeys” the other day instead of “turquoise” :) lol the older he gets the worse he pronounces english words.

    Exmi, thank you for pointing out the finer details of your spectacles :)

  • Ja, your mom is right. Splinters in the buttocks are nasty things.

  • Kyk, I am so tempted to make an inappropriate joke using the words “wood” and “ass” right now.

  • Lurve the specs! As the resident optical dispenser around these parts, i’m very proud that you made such a good choice….

  • Awesome meeting you and BF at the wedding! You are as cool in real life as in cyberspace!

  • Hardy – it was truly wonderful finally meeting you. xxx

  • She can’t be that much of a good friend if she took over 3 days to read this post. tsk tsk

    xx

  • What !!!! Do not ever sit on the fence and who is the deserving friend that stuck up for you? Whoever is dissing you obviously don’t want to meet me right now. Whoever you are mess with my kids and you will have to hide from me dog turd !!!!! And I will get J the B.E.J. and your brothers to protect my angelic. noncholant, naive, GULLIBLE fifi. Love you madam mwah mwah tee hee tehee smiley face XXXXXXXXXXXX

  • Good friends are so hard to come by now days, good thing we cherish the ones we have and boot the ones no longer welcome.

  • I’m sorry that happened to you Sheen. Its never nice to find your trust was misplaced.

  • My mom comments like a ritard sometimes. Honestly.

    *shakes head*

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