Have good friends.

One thing my mom always taught me is that your reputation precedes you.  No matter how far you run, it’ll follow and until you rectify it, it’ll never go away.  Another thing she always says is “Never sit on the fence!”.  This weekend I found out that someone close to me has betrayed me.  I can’t say I’m really surprised, because all the signs have been showing up for a while, but I can’t say I’m not hurt either.

I’m so grateful that I have good friends who support me and are loyal no matter what.  Without a second thought my friend stood up for me without knowing all of the facts, but she stood up for me regardless.  Yes, I was betrayed, but more importantly I was backed up by this friend, and that’s what matters to me most.

So in the spirit of never sitting on the fence, and defending my reputation, I’d like to just say that I’m glad I have good friends.

The Three Must-Be-Queers

PS: Anglug wedding was awesome.  Separate blog post pending.


  1. ExMi says:

    christ i love this picture.

    FUCK all the douches in the world. seriously. specifically one.

    that douche will get what’s coming to them. seri-ass.

  2. CC says:

    Did you guys purposefully get matching frames…..

    Someone close to us always betrays us, sadly I think it happens to everyone and more than once :/ who can know why, jealousy or just human nature….
    Anyways, now you’re making everyone curious as to what happened, it’d be cool if you did a post on it 😛 It makes for interesting reading, sorry lol, I’m bored, and so nosy.

    • Shebee says:

      Well, we didn’t try. But since ExMi got hers first, I suppose she inspired mine. Although you can’t see it in this photo, mine are a dark red tortoise shell, hers are black.

      I don’t think I’ll be blogging the details, I have had one fight online already and its taken me years to get rid of the bad joojoo that came with it, so I’ll keep this one offline 🙂

  3. Tara says:

    Cleavage and hot nerd glasses. Kieffly pic. Despite being blurry, the Goose has some amazing eyes going on there.

    Hope the dramarama clears up chickiepoo <3

  4. ExMi says:

    and by “try” you mean – we drinkanddrinkanddrink until we realise it’s an AWESOME idea to take pictures.

    and pull goosefaces.

  5. ExMi says:

    @CC mine are black *and* tortoiseshell.

    sheena’s are red and tortoiseshell.

    TORTOISE. that’s such an arb word.

  6. Briget says:

    It is truly KAK when you are betrayed.. Hope it passes without too much hurtfullness 🙁

    Lucky for you though.. You are truly fabulous and have fabulous type people surrounding you 🙂


  7. CC says:

    lol I know about online feuds! I think the best thing is to confront them, hear their stupid explanation/lie, and move on and just forget about it.

    My dad said “turkeys” the other day instead of “turquoise” 🙂 lol the older he gets the worse he pronounces english words.

    Exmi, thank you for pointing out the finer details of your spectacles 🙂

  8. Amy says:

    Lurve the specs! As the resident optical dispenser around these parts, i’m very proud that you made such a good choice….

  9. Mam says:

    What !!!! Do not ever sit on the fence and who is the deserving friend that stuck up for you? Whoever is dissing you obviously don’t want to meet me right now. Whoever you are mess with my kids and you will have to hide from me dog turd !!!!! And I will get J the B.E.J. and your brothers to protect my angelic. noncholant, naive, GULLIBLE fifi. Love you madam mwah mwah tee hee tehee smiley face XXXXXXXXXXXX

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